he suddenly asked WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN TEN YEARS?
okay..honestly i didn't know him much..and for him to randomly start a conversation with a stranger..he had gain my respect..we talked mostly about college, and nursing of course..
ME: thanks anyway..haha.it was a nice chat..
FR: nahh don't mention,it's nothing.
ME: td mcm xhabis ckp kan..curious nii
FR: just like drugs, curiosity kills. just jgn kejar social status smpai social life bterabur
ME: makan dalam tu..biasela mule2 ni ambitious bukan maen. u've been there kan? normal la. xkan la when someone asked u question mcm tu nak jwb..yaa in ten years to come i might be married and busy raising 4 kids..u get my point kan? anywho..i have to admit..it is an eye opener. thanks for sharing. national university of singapore? amek ape?
FR: abg keja NUS la.. why 4? cannot be 3 or 3 and a half? someone taught me b4 if u want to find ur lady, ask them this question, if this question fits your answer then wait no more, quickly ask for her hands. it's okay to be ambitious, abg smpai skang pun sgt90000 bcite2 tggi, tapi along the lines, just don't forget that there is another part of u that needs to be pampered, which is ur social life. if let say u worked damn hard for it and at the end of the day u got that, then what? by then u'll realize that ur frens who are so-so only in life, yet seems to be a lot more happier than u, with their life in balance.
ME: haha! 3 and a half retarded kids bley la! btol la ape abg ckp tu..u know jaz dibesarkan dlm environment yg sume org perlu capai satu tahap yang orang lain bley pandang tinggi..then baru u bley fikir nak get married sume. dont blame me. kecik2 lagi da kene brainwash. klau ni la what every mans want..then u'd proved me a point..jgn risau la..my obsession tak smpai lg nak jadi andartu sume.heh..keje NUS jd ape?
FR: i used to.. like i said, been there done that. it's good to be more superior than others, but we are not talking bout excellency in status or so-called wau-prof-siot-die. It's the stigma n norm, bleh je nak attain prof ke even datukship tapi pastikan ur kids, ur friends,ur parents, ur inferior staffs,ur circle of societies won't chase u out of their fraternity.. just look around, cth dimane2.
ME: abg bley masuk debate la..haha..im impressed. tapi kan..i think i dont want to be a nurse la. my intention nak sambung belajar pon sebab xnak jadi typical-ordinary staff nurse. tp ckp senang la kan..u now mcm mane..from your point of view clearly shows u nak ur future wife bukan jenis yang workaholic? ek? hehe..i dont know knape tibe2 ckp pasal topic ni..ade personal experience ke?
FR: abg debate nnt abg mrh sume org haha.. u shud not be a nurse, no matter what they said bout it,(muliala,tlg orgla) cos at the end of the day, it's YOUR life that matters, they can talk bout it as they are not in our shoes, one thing i hate most bout bedside nursing is that THEY, decide whether tonight we shall be there for dinner with our kids or not, whether this weekend we would be able to attend our kid's debate competition (debate gak tu example haha) or not, THEY gets to decide which night should we sleep and which night should we stay awake, whilst THEY gets to tdo nyenyak2 kat umah (ofis hour kan sister2 hehe), by hook ke by crook ke by whatever it takes, u gotta get out of bedside nursing (not nursing as a whole ok hehe) kalu xnk org dcide weekend ni bleh ajak anak kite gi piknik ke tak.. just my two cents hehe
(By the way, working woman is intellectually stimulating, huhu)
I have to say, it is an eye opener. ape yg sebelum ni aku x pernah terfikir..dirungkai satu persatu. since next year da nak grad..this kind of advices is all i need right now..but degree is still on the compulsory list. (then get married.haha!)
and my anwer to his question,
rahsie! haha
its just, i was too ambitious..planning and trying so hard..lepas degree, master la and everything
its is not wrong to be ambitious. just pastikan ur life is at balance.
i love my job tho :)
being as a student is hard enough. da keje nnt mcm mane?
lpas kahwin xnak keje bley?
oh heaven!
